My Very First Fathers Day!

I never liked fathers day. Not because I didn’t like fathers, but because every celebration of fathers day reminded me of the void in me that I’ve always tried to fill. It reminded me of the relationship i wish I had.

Today is different though. For the very first time I really am celebrating fathers day. I’m celebrating my father without any wishful thinking or void in my heart because I have finally accepted the truth that I have always had a dad.

I’ve been going through life listening to the devil’s lies that I have no father looking out for me. I lived all 32 years of my life feeling incomplete and unwanted because my biological dad wasn’t there.

But I know better now. I have been set free from the oppression of that lie by the truth of Gods word. I have always had a father. He formed me and gave me a name and a future. He wrote down everyday of my life in his book. He loves me unconditionally and is always looking out for my good.

A dad who has never left my side for once even when I didn’t realize he was there.  He’s not mad at me and is always in a good mood about me. He sees my imperfections yet, he’s proud of me!

Today is fathers day and for the first time, I have no pain about today. Instead I am full of gratitude to my dad for his amazing grace and patience with me. Bringing me up to this point has been quite a journey I tell you.

Happy fathers day dad, thank you for being not just God, but a great great father.

Thy Will Be Done…

Mark 8:34 (ERV)

This season God is reaching out to his children all over the world across all platforms. Don’t miss the move of God by holding on to your desires and wants and ambitions. Your true fulfillment comes from walking the path God has marked out for you.

Let go and let God!

Thy will be done oh lord…! Thy will only be done.

It’s All About Process…

God is all about “Process”. A lot of times, it’s not about the destination; it’s about the lessons we learn along the way.

My process is different from yours and yours is different from mine.
Yours might be easy. Mine might not be.
Either way, we will both learn our lessons. You might learn faster than me; i might learn faster than you.

At the end of the day, we have both been trained, been pruned and been built.

And we are who we were meant to be.

God Does Have A Sense Of Humour…

I know this might be difficult for some people to come to terms with, but yes; God does have a sense of humour.  I have to say this because of the recent bible story jokes trending on twitter and the way some folks are reacting to it and calling it blasphemy.

Social media might have its shortcomings but one cannot deny the fact that it’s the very hub of the most hilarious social interaction and ideas. At the snap of a finger, someone drops a tweet and it becomes a trend that spreads like wildfire.

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The Mixture Of God And Entertainment. How It Works For Me…

People keep telling me how I’m too “Jesusy” on social media. (On twitter particularly) strangers and acquaintances and colleagues friends always ask me: “don’t you think you are taking this God and Jesus thing too far? Then they proceed to “enlighten” me how being too “religious” on twitter is affecting my “image” and how it can be bad for my “brand”.

Sometimes I try to explain, other times, I can’t just be bothered.  I know they mean well. After all, from most people’s point of view, media and entertainment do not mix with God. Because the entertainment industry is supposed to be “sinful” and “ungodly” and entertainers are usually not perceived as godly people.

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It’s The Small Acts Of Obedience That Make A Difference

How does it make sense to pray for guidance in the future if we are not even obeying the things that lie before us today?

When we look at scripture, there are so many ‘momentous’ events that simply depend on one person’s seemingly small act of obedience.

Be rest assured, do what God tells you to do now, and, depend upon the fact that you will be shown in due course whats next.

Love ya!

I Am In Love With A Man I’ve Never Met

I am in love with a man I’ve never met. And although I don’t know every quirk in his personality or the shape of his face, I do know what his heart looks like.

He is big enough to be gentle and great enough to be thoughtful. His shoulders are broad enough to bear the burden of a family. His lips are strong enough to smile and firm enough to say, “No.”

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Do You Think About What You’re Thinking About?

Some people are very unhappy, and they have been that way so long that they no longer realize there is another option. I can well remember being like that. I blamed my unhappiness on the way others behaved. I thought my husband and children caused me the most unhappiness.

If they would change and just be a little more sensitive to my needs, I knew I’d feel better. If they would help around the house more, volunteer to run errands, or just ask how I was doing, I knew I’d be happy.

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I looked out the car window anxiously as the cab turned the last corner into my street and moved slowly down the road. I couldn’t wait to step out of the heated cab into my house and turn on the Air conditioning. I had been away for 4 days. 4 long days, attending a Christian leader’s conference in Benin I was glad to be home.

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